A Girl's Tolerance

today, i got a question popped up from one of my girlfriends.
She asked, "To what extent do you allow a guy friend to have physical touch on you?"
And immediately i thought she got harassed by her male colleague again? Luckily it was not. She was just curious of my answer and my accepted tolerance.

Well, first of all, we would see the situation lor. Shoulders, arms are okay. and even head or hair are still okay. But a definite no no for legs and backs. But then all these depend on the whole situation. We girls are very sensitive and know what's happening.

Then she asked again, "what about a kiss on the face?"

Then also have to depend on situation lor. If he's a very open minded person and the reason for kissing on face would be meant for greetings or congratulating you, then i wouldn't mind that. Even hugging also okay. and of course, not those bear huggy type la...But then all these only apply to open minded person like ang mohs and very very close friends. Normally asians won't do that. Then my friend say i bias... lol...

All in all, of course we must judge whether there's any other bad intention to just to physically touch you. We girls should have the sense of it. Still can remember whenever I slightly touched this kind of conversation with my ex-bf, wah....garang-nya. I guess this is the male instinct to try and protect their gf from those perverts. But then, trust us girls, we know how to judge and how to handle a pervert. Hard to explain but it's one of our borned instinct too :)